That's a perfectly thought out answer chazza. I suppose what I'm saying is that some introductions seem either very rehearsed, or just repeated. There appears to be no attempt to incorporate thoughts from the profile. I don't mind the crude attempts, kinda funny, but it won't make me feel I should reply. Those I do respond to have generally been very original, and confident without being arrogant. its quite clear why most men are here and I wish them well,but for me, personally?, I'm after having my mind aroused. More then anything else, it's what attracts me to someone if they're able to cause that then it's what makes me consider other possibilities.