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 Posted on Feb 13th
View adult dating member profile hereCAMELION
age 68
Newport

In my opinion ( which may not interest some people ) it if far better to send mail rather than trying to make contact by chat. At least if the other person isn't still online the mail will be there when they next login... I do agree that a negative reply is better than none... Despite the popular conception, men can cope with rejection.

 
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 Posted on Feb 13th
View adult dating member profile hereandrew29
age 48
Wolves


if theres any other good looking couples under 40 out there would like to meet up or swap email pics

 
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 Posted on Feb 13th
View adult dating member profile hereandrew29
age 48
Wolves


yeah, same for me, we are a couple new to this both good looking with gsoh etc..

 
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 Posted on Jan 1st
View adult dating member profile hereMeeeeeeee
age 41
Gothenburg

I totally agree, it is an impossible situation for a woman on here who may try to be friendly and when 4 or more guys are all trying to have cyber sex with you, how the hell are you supposed to be in any way aroused at different stages of activity lol. Sometimes it's easier to tell them to try redtube wink

 
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 Posted on Jan 1st
View adult dating member profile hereno-nix-hannah
age 44
Kent

sexyeyes15 said:
true but then just reply saying your busy and maybe chat later x


That can only be true of the last of the six reasons I gave earlier. But as silverstreaks says, if we said that, most men would either take that as a slight against them or continue to send messages anyway. And, in the majority of instances, those two scenarios are exactly what happens.

 
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 Posted on Dec 31st
View adult dating member profile heresilverstreaks
age 60
Knowsley

sexyeyes15 said:
true but then just reply saying your busy and maybe chat later x

Sorry to say doesn't work that way.Then we get all the abuse,because the man thinks his ego has been dented.Most men class that as a refusal.So there is no easy way

 
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 Posted on Dec 30th
View adult dating member profile heresexyeyes15
age 40

true but then just reply saying your busy and maybe chat later x

 
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 Posted on Dec 28th
View adult dating member profile hereno-nix-hannah
age 44
Kent

Added to that is that girls sometimes get inundated with chat making it difficult to reply to everyone.

 
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 Posted on Dec 28th
View adult dating member profile hereno-nix-hannah
age 44
Kent

Others have also asked a similar question and when given the possible reasons why their messages do not receive a reply, have understood.

1. The person you send a message to may not actually be online though it may show they are. If you don't click the 'logout' button, the system assumes you're still active.

2. It depends what you say to them. If you contact a girl with something along the lines of, "I'm hung like a donkey so how about it, darlin?" will only be met with laughter. Just because this is a sex site, it doesn't mean your manners should be left at the door.

3. Those you contact may not be full members so are unable to reply.

4. If you don't satisfy their criteria, you may well be ignored. If a profile states, "No one over 50" or "No men" yet you decide to contact her anyway, why are you surprised at not receiving a repsponse? Unfortunately, a vast number of men on here don't read a profile before sending a message and then complain they don't get an answer. My own profile asks people not to use any text chat, but many do, which is why I don't reply. Respect what a profile requests. If you can't do that, don't make contact!

5. Maybe you're just messaging women devoid of their own manners.

 
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 Posted on Dec 28th
View adult dating member profile hereshaguars123
age 74
Gillingham

your not the only one mate poor site

 
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