beanbag_2 said:
the so called dommes that are bullies who dont look after their submissive(s) that are referred to in the previous post...they forget one important thing!! Which is respect!Respect is earned, not automatic. If you want a submissive to respect you, first prove that you deserve it. The people you see in the community, the people you see at play parties, who command widespread respect? They earned it. And by the way, just because someone is a submissive, that does not automatically mean he or she should submit to you. If you don't even know this person's name and have not yet established any kind of relationship whatsoever with this person, assuming you deserve this person's submission is a bit premature, wanker. Submissives exist for more than your own fantasy fulfillment!
Bully boy doms are wannabe's-think they know it all when they dont.
i agree totally. it takes time to earn the level of trust, communication and mutual respect that is necessary for a true sub/dom relationship to work