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 Posted on Aug 22nd
View adult dating member profile herebeanbag_2
age 59
Northampton

smartyarse said:
god this all seems lie too much hard work. i'll think i'll stick to the mainstream where i feel more comfortable
Its not hardwork.....its a case of doing your homework as it were and know what your doing!!BDSM invoves first and foremost trust and honesty-if thats not in place,no point!!

 
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 Posted on Aug 22nd
View adult dating member profile heresmartyarse
age 51
Dublin

god this all seems lie too much hard work. i'll think i'll stick to the mainstream where i feel more comfortable

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile herebeanbag_2
age 59
Northampton

ganymede said:
If it works then it can be a very rewarding and unique thing. The difficult part is to find the right parson and build the level of trust needed for it to work.
Been lucky there myself to find right person.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile hereganymede
age 67
Gravesend

If it works then it can be a very rewarding and unique thing. The difficult part is to find the right parson and build the level of trust needed for it to work.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile herebeanbag_2
age 59
Northampton

It sure does.....that trust/honesty goes very deep.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile hereganymede
age 67
Gravesend

beanbag_2 said:
the so called dommes that are bullies who dont look after their submissive(s) that are referred to in the previous post...they forget one important thing!! Which is respect!Respect is earned, not automatic. If you want a submissive to respect you, first prove that you deserve it. The people you see in the community, the people you see at play parties, who command widespread respect? They earned it. And by the way, just because someone is a submissive, that does not automatically mean he or she should submit to you. If you don't even know this person's name and have not yet established any kind of relationship whatsoever with this person, assuming you deserve this person's submission is a bit premature, wanker. Submissives exist for more than your own fantasy fulfillment!
Bully boy doms are wannabe's-think they know it all when they dont.

i agree totally. it takes time to earn the level of trust, communication and mutual respect that is necessary for a true sub/dom relationship to work

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile herebeanbag_2
age 59
Northampton

the so called dommes that are bullies who dont look after their submissive(s) that are referred to in the previous post...they forget one important thing!! Which is respect!Respect is earned, not automatic. If you want a submissive to respect you, first prove that you deserve it. The people you see in the community, the people you see at play parties, who command widespread respect? They earned it. And by the way, just because someone is a submissive, that does not automatically mean he or she should submit to you. If you don't even know this person's name and have not yet established any kind of relationship whatsoever with this person, assuming you deserve this person's submission is a bit premature, wanker. Submissives exist for more than your own fantasy fulfillment!
Bully boy doms are wannabe's-think they know it all when they dont.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile hereganymede
age 67
Gravesend

beanbag_2 said:
Monarch101 said:
beanbag_2 said:
smartyarse said:
thanks for all your pointers. there is more to it than i thought. now all i need is someone willing to experiment with
Before you"experiment" as you put it with someone,may i suggest you look on some BDSM sites/forums and see if there is a Dominant who may be willing to take you under his wing and mentor you.As i for one would no way want a relative newbie anywhere near me if he has no experiance in the art of sceneing/use of implements/most of all one who has no idea how to look after his submissive!!

How many so called dommes are in fact bullies and don't appreciate the responsibility that goes with having someone in your control


Wise words indeed !!
Many thanks for that Monarch!!Been in the lifestyle for some time myself,a lot of newbies treat it as a game and think they can wield a flogger around left right and centre with no thought whatsoever.A flogger and the like in the wrong hands can cause serious damage.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile herebeanbag_2
age 59
Northampton

Monarch101 said:
beanbag_2 said:
smartyarse said:
thanks for all your pointers. there is more to it than i thought. now all i need is someone willing to experiment with
Before you"experiment" as you put it with someone,may i suggest you look on some BDSM sites/forums and see if there is a Dominant who may be willing to take you under his wing and mentor you.As i for one would no way want a relative newbie anywhere near me if he has no experiance in the art of sceneing/use of implements/most of all one who has no idea how to look after his submissive!!


Wise words indeed !!
Many thanks for that Monarch!!Been in the lifestyle for some time myself,a lot of newbies treat it as a game and think they can wield a flogger around left right and centre with no thought whatsoever.A flogger and the like in the wrong hands can cause serious damage.

 
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 Posted on Aug 20th
View adult dating member profile hereMonarch101
age 62
Reading

beanbag_2 said:
smartyarse said:
thanks for all your pointers. there is more to it than i thought. now all i need is someone willing to experiment with
Before you"experiment" as you put it with someone,may i suggest you look on some BDSM sites/forums and see if there is a Dominant who may be willing to take you under his wing and mentor you.As i for one would no way want a relative newbie anywhere near me if he has no experiance in the art of sceneing/use of implements/most of all one who has no idea how to look after his submissive!!


Wise words indeed !!

 
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